Happy :)

 

Who doesn’t want to be happy? Feels even better, when you are the reason for someone to be.

Our happiness is planned way before the day of our very humble existence. So many people brainstorm in this exercise throughout our lives. Everything is thought upon to lead a life – family, school, a career, marriage and what not? Somewhere on this journey, Mr. Happiness is left lonely considering other aspects.

We run day and night to be successful, to be an apple of eye, to be a star. Where are we for ourselves? How many days did we speak to the inner we? Some might name it altruism and it does bring happiness.

We sometimes loan our lives to the happiness of so many people that this treasure box remains as a hollow shell with darkness. It’s nearly impossible to please each and every one. True that we live for others. To live for each other, maybe to live is more important.

To live, we ought to be happy amidst the pain. They are the flip sides of our lives. We know the fact that sharing pain or talking out will reduce it. It would reduce, but, not vanish. Might even worsen if shared inappropriately. Its up to us to be happy. Talking out is an easier one. The difficult task is to calm down. Think through and then, open up. Might do a magic. You may feel the bliss within.

May be when you talk, others unhappiness might overweight yours. It can be irritating or liberating. Whatever it is, it is better than piling up negativity within.

We earn the true happiness with liberation and gratitude. Gratitude is good. Overbearing is detrimental. Humility might make you seem docile. It's you who has decide rather than going by others opinion without pondering. We are living in a judgmental era. Whatever you do will be dissected and thought upon in numerous angles. There is a way to bail out. Do only as much goodness as possible and feel good in whatever you do.

There are many sad bad days. These are flickering moments of hitting rock bottom. When you are up again, a melody of harmony presides. As the happiness builds up with more so does the sorrow. It is most important to have smaller outbursts of sadness to strike a balance. A platter full of sadness is a scrumptious meal for depression. Consume a little at a time to have the mental check. Cry, bark, stay alone or do whatever it takes to throw it out rather throwing yourself. Stay assertive. Better would be to move towards happiness all the time.

So, are you happy?